Maturity

Article by: Muhammed Labeeb

Some ppl are not worth the regards, this is because when you rate them on a scale of respect which is reciprocation, they don't do it, they believe in being superior to everyone.

First I asked myself what is maturity, no one wants to say I am immature, but everybody don't still tend to understand what maturity entails we just claim it.

Maturity doesn't involve you being strict, maturity doesn't involve you to class yourself and not talk to people because you feel they will disrespect you, maturity isn't being a superior of other. Let me enlighten you about maturity.

Maturity deals with alot of things which only little have, amongst is patience which isn't common, people think acting fast is always the answer, but patience entails you to wait and pick a better option to act on, most times when we lay down and think of our actions we then always realize some steps we felt we should never have taken which would have been better, many people always feel I was bitten and I will bite my own back should be the result without thinking, this maturity implies us to have patience to handle situation and not jump into conclusion which will make us regret

Also maturity involves endurance and over looking of action

How long can you continue enduring people talk behind your back and overlook it, how well can you let people know you are aware about their wrong doing and forgive it, I heard when Jesus was slapped on the right ear he turned the left, alot of people might criticize him as an idiot but only people that understood it will know the amount of maturity that action entails because the person who slapped him will continue to wonder what kind of man he is and how bad his actions are, maturity entails you to make your actions take someone by surprise and make them wonder who you are and keep having remorse without you saying a word. Do you have these?!

Maturity involves you to be able to take responsibility of your actions, know you are wrong accept it and apologies maturity involves you to be able to smile even when you are in pain, do good to your brother even if he is bad, help someone out even when they are not there, been able to discipline your self towards what is right, knowing what you worth without letting pride come in, doing things for people and not expecting anything in return. But how many of our today so called mature people have these qualities, they are so few and when you ask them why, they will tell you the world is cruel.

It amazes me that the ignorants are the wisest now

I am not done talking to everyone reading, tell me do you have these qualities, yes we can't be perfect but we might have some flaws, we might be hot tempered and do things, but our flaws shouldn't be more than 50 percent, if it is then know that you are totally immature, so many try to be good but at the end they destroy all they have done just because of so called immaturity, the best of men are the mature one who takes responsibility for their actions and try to be better.

Maturity doesn't make you stupid it doesn't make you a fool but it makes you take control of your environment.

They are calling you a man cause you are giving out money and acting bossy and showing you have power, they will say you are mature, lol 😆

Maturity comes to only those who are patient enough to endure each situation, take responsibility for their actions and take control of the situation at the right moment.

Someone told me the world is not good to good people, the same person told me I am the most childish person and most immature individual, I always felt bad not because it's true but because the person is the only one who has ever told me such and has a wrong definition for maturity.

But even this same person barely has these qualities, u don't need to make alot of efforts to make people do things the right way cause when you are mature you don't need to be authoritative to make plans work out. The only person you should be maturely immature with is a good partner because no matter how you try to be the best they know your flaws and sometimes you need to yell and cry Infront of them which makes you look like a child but not immature.

But even if you didn't understand all I said, know that you don't act being mature, you be mature

I am Emrys 🧙🏽‍♂️